Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Thoughts #15 - Rhetoric

Social media has been filled with some strong rhetoric and images the last 24 hours.  I've read things that I wish I hadn't read.  I've seen things that I wish I didn't see.  Living in Australia, I don't see all American news stories covered in the same way.  But, I read American news daily.  I believe that our news' sources can shape our thoughts about certain stories, so I try to read several different sources and points of view when stories of interest surface. 

From what I've read and seen, I think the death of Michael Brown could've been prevented by both Brown and Officer Wilson. Brown acted aggressively towards the officer. He definitely shouldn't have done that. When an officer gives instruction, you do what he/she says, whether you agree or not. And, you definitely don't act in a way that can be interpreted as reaching for the officer's weapon.
Did the officer over-react? I think there's argument that he did. I think six shots were unnecessary.
But it doesn't matter what I think. It was up to the grand jury. They made a decision. If the citizens of Ferguson want to protest that decision, that is their right, and I support it. However, I do not support looting, vandalism, setting fires, or further violence. I know we don't live in an ideal world, but I'd like to see us learn, grow, and evolve when such incidents take place. I don't think further destruction helps that cause.


Those are my thoughts, but I'd like to share the thoughts of someone else.    I had the pleasure of working with Danny for a few years. He is a hard-working, easy-going, father, husband, and friend. He is a black man who grew up in Houston, Texas, the fourth largest city in the USA.  Danny posted these words on facebook a few hours after the Ferguson announcement.  His words were thoughtful, heartfelt, and eloquent. They are worth sharing and thoughtfully reading. Read, and think. (But, please, do not use my space as a place to disrespectfully debate).
From Danny: "Today, we as a culture are dealing with centuries of negative mental programming and a culture of lack and inferiority that we are just now beginning to shed. We need to work toward the ultimate goal of unity and growth (spiritual,mental, and economic) if we ever want to move past where we've been. We got close during the civil rights movement, but were derailed by the efforts of those who hated us for no plausible reason other than heritage.
We have to do better and teach our children better if we want better. We cant loot liquor stores in our community because of civil injustice. If we're not happy with what's going on, we need to be effective not only.with our words, but with our actions. I just can't deal with some of these images I see. It makes it hard for those who can articulate the real problems to maintain any credibility when it's a stark contrast to the actions some display. Looting is not protesting. It's just that simple."
Photo credit



Monday, November 24, 2014

List #16 - Lyrics

On the train, listening to my ipod which I regularly keep on shuffle so whatever plays next is a surprise.  Today, it's serving up some good ones, so I've grabbed some lyrics to share:

1.
We were the kings and queens of promise
We were the victims of ourselves
Maybe the children of a lesser God
Between Heaven and Hell
30 Seconds to Mars "Kings and Queens" written by Jared Leto
photo from band's facebook

2.
I will not bow
I will not break
I will shut the world away
Breaking Benjamin "I Will Not Bow" written by Jasen Rauch
Photo from band's facebook

3.
Say you want to stay, you want me to
Say you'll never die, you'll always haunt me
I want to know I belong to you
Say you'll haunt me
Stone Sour "Say You'll Haunt Me" written by Josh Rand, Roy Mayorga, James Root, Corey Taylor, Shawn Economaki
Photo from band's facebook

4.
Do what you wanna do
Go out and seek your truth
When I'm down and blue
Rather be me than you
Alice In Chains "Heaven Beside You" written by Jerry Cantrell
Photo credit - Two guys in this photo are dead from drug overdoses - Drugs are bad, kids.

5.
Even when you're all alone
Even when it's not your home
I smell the blood of an australian
Try to understand me if you can
Eskimo Joe "Foreign Land" written by Stephen Parkin
Photo from band's facebook

6.
The feelings I once felt are now dead and gone
I've waited here for you for so very long 
Black Label Society "Stillborn" written by Zachary P. Wylde
Photo from band's facebook

7.
I just can't wake up on the floor
Like a thousand times before
Knowing that forever won't be
P!nk "Mean" written by Jonathan S. Davis, Alecia Moore, Butch Walker, Billy Mann
Photo credit

8.
I won't stop running
I'm only getting closer
To getting off the ground this time
The sky is calling, the wind is at my shoulders
Won't let this chance pass me by
Slash featuring Myles Kennedy & The Conspirators "Bent to Fly" written by Saul Hudson and Myles Kennedy
Photo from Slash's facebook

9.
You make me wanna die
I'll never be good enough
You make me wanna die
And everything you love will burn up in the light
Every time I look inside your eyes
You make me wanna die
The Pretty Reckless "Make Me Wanna Die" written by Kato Khandwala, Taylor Momsen, Ben Phillips
Photo credit

10.
And this is how it looks when I am standing on the edge
And this is how I break apart when I finally hit the ground
And this is how it hurts when I pretend I don't feel any pain
And this is how I disappear when I throw myself away
Red "Breathe Into Me" written by Jason Mcarthur, Robert Douglas Graves, Jasen Rauch, Anthony Armstrong
Photo from band's facebook

11.
Runnin wild and lookin pretty
Nick Gilder "Hot Child in the City" written by Nick Gilder and James McCulloch
Photo credit

12.
With open hearts, despite the stakes
We take a chance on our mistakes
A brand new day, we will embrace
An open wound that heals with grace
All the fears that we will face
In this time, and in this place
When you can say, and I can say
We loved with every step we take, I'll be ok
Nothing More "I'll Be OK" written by Daniel Oliver, Jonathan Taylor Hawkins, Mark Anthony Vollelunga

Photo from band's facebook
13.
 I know you'll look away while I'm crying
I know you'll wear that bow with a smile
Everything I gave you, it was wasted
Love further down, adore that denial
AFI "Heart Stops" written by Davey Havok and Jade Puget

Photo from band's facebook
14.
 Something so familiar drawn from this blank page
Every line from my hand takes me back to what I can't erase
Bon Jovi "Pictures of You" written by Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora, John M. Shanks

Photo from band's facebook
15.
This song is a work of lyrical genius, so you get the whole song.  The song is a story that you need it in its entirety to truly feel the emotion of the story.  Seriously.  If you do not know this song, watch this video, and read these lyrics.  So, so good.

And it starts
Sometime around midnight
Or at least that's when you lose yourself
For a minute or two

As you stand
Under the bar lights
And the band plays some song about forgetting yourself for a while
And the piano's this melancholy soundtrack to her smile
And that white dress she's wearing, you haven't seen her
For a while

But you know
That she's watching
She's laughing, she's turning
She's holding her tonic like a cross
The room suddenly spinning, she walks up and asks how you are
So you can smell her perfume
You can see her lying naked in your arms

And so there's a change
In your emotions
And all of these memories come rushing like feral waves to your mind
Of the curl of your bodies, like two perfect circles entwined
And you feel hopeless, and homeless, and lost in the haze of the wine

And she leaves
With someone you don't know
But she makes sure you saw her, she looks right at you and bolts
As she walks out the door
Your blood boiling, your stomach in ropes
And then your friends say "What is it? You look like you've seen a ghost."

And you walk
Under the streetlights
And you're too drunk to notice that everyone's staring at you
You don't care what you look like
The world is falling around you

You just have to see her
You just have to see her
You just have to see her
You just have to see her
You just have to see her

You know that she'll break you in two

The Airborne Toxic Event "Sometime Around Midnight" written by Mikel Jollet

Sunday, November 23, 2014

Sunday's Seven Snapshots #3


I took the day off on Monday, watched a couple of movies, and snuggled with this guy. 

Tuesday marked fifteen years since the collapse of Aggie bonfire and twelve lives were lost. A sad day for my university. 

I was liking my hot pink lipstick, so I took a photo. I'm an idiot sometimes. 

Picked up some books at the library. I've had The Rosie Project on reserve for months. It was finally ready for me, and it fits a category for the book challenge. Bonus. 

A friend posted this; I had to save and share. 

Instagram had a campaign to bring awareness to domestic violence. I saw this post by a girl I don't know and was really moved by it. 

Me at The Screaming Jets - an Aussie rock show that I'm so glad I didn't miss (thanks to Kate). 


Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Currently Loving Linkup #2

I stumbled upon a blog (The Happy Type) who is new to hosting a weekly linkup.  Well, I'm new to participating in a weekly linkup.  (Actually, I've never participated until now.)  If I'm going to jump in as a newbie, I might as well jump in with a newbie host.  Check her out here. 

The Happy Type 

My contribution to things that I'm "currently loving":

Mount Franklin Lightly Sparkling Water - For the last few months, I've done a pretty good job at eliminating cokes and other sodas and energy drinks.  Because of this, I've been drinking lots and lots of water.  I've discovered that if I drink sparkling water it actually makes me feel fuller.  I don't know if it's the bubbles working magic or what, but it works for me.  Plus, Mount Franklin has these Jennifer Hawkins (former Miss Universe) sponsored wrapped bottles of water, so they look pretty while I'm drinking them :)

I don't regularly watch morning news/entertainment shows.  But, if I did, I'd watch the Today Show (Australian version).  Karl Stefanovic is a well-known television presenter in Australia.  Some love him, and some hate him.  I've found him to be somewhat genuine and entertaining.  I think he made news this week for a pretty awesome social experiment.  Watch here:

Butch Walker is an insanely talented musician that I (not just currently) regularly love.  He's got a new album coming out soon.  He's touring with Ryan Adams and playing awesome places like Carnegie Hall.  He's feeding his fans with new songs from the upcoming album.  This is one of them.  I love the guitar.  I love the vocals.  I love the lyrics.  Three reasons why I love Mr. Butch Walker.

Spring is my favorite season, and it's Springtime in Sydney!  The skies are blue, the flowers are blooming, and the weather has been pretty close to perfect.  I love that I have citrus trees in my front and back yards.  Here's a baby mandarin from my yard:

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Sunday's Seven Snapshots #2

Monday was these girlies' first birthday. Sally & Dolly are one year old!  We were told they are 75% Great Dane + 25% German Shepherd. Now, after a year of growth, I'm convinced they are 100% mutt. Love these sweet sisters. 

Tuesday was Veteran's Day in America and Remembrance Day in Australia. These are pictures of my great-uncles who served in WWII. 


People freaked about the trilogy that began with Fifty Shades of Grey; I couldn't finish the book. Actually, I just didn't care how it ended, so I quit it. Now, fans are freaking about the movie trailer. The BDSM doesn't bother me. I'm just not fond of neat-freak, self-absorbed, anal-retentive people, nor am I attracted to them. Let's just say I would NOT be interested in a guy if his closet looked like this.

I commute daily by train. This is a typical view for me: book in hand, Lavendar Bay and North Sydney in the distance. 

It was time to put decorations out at the store. It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas... (Shameless plug: www.polajewellers.com)

Ivy loves laying on her daddy's clothes (and mine too). If you can't find her, she may be in the wardrobe or closet, in a clothes drawer, or in the laundry basket.

In bed, with a book and my three kitties: My kind of Saturday night party these days.

Yes, this week had several animal photos. I can't help it. They are such cute subjects that I take a lot of fur baby photos. 

How was your week?

*okay, I wrote this Saturday night but didn't mean to publish until Sunday but hit publish on accident, so it published a day early. Thank goodness I don't have many people that actually pay attention to my blog. Ha!



Tuesday, November 11, 2014

List #15 - Live Music Shows



A few years ago, I made this crazy attempt to list all the live music shows I've seen. I tried to include only rock/pop acts (with a few notable country crossover artists...even though that's not necessarily "my thing"...but I am from TEXAS after all!).

AC/DC ~ Aerosmith ~ AFI ~ Against Me ~ Airbourne ~ Air Supply ~ Alice Cooper ~ Alice in Chains (w/new singer) ~ Alien Ant Farm ~ All American Rejects ~ Alter Bridge ~ American Anthem ~ American Hi-Fi ~ American Pearl ~ Anberlin ~ Anthrax ~ Avenged Sevenfold ~ Avril Lavigne ~ Axe

Baby Animals ~ Bang Tango ~ Beautiful Creatures ~ The Bellamy Brothers ~ Beth Hart ~ Better Than Ezra ~ Beyoncé ~ Biffy Clyro ~ Big Head Todd & the Monsters ~ Billy Idol ~ Black Crowes ~ Black Eyed Peas ~ Black Label Society ~ Black Stone Cherry ~ Blindside ~ Blink 182 ~ Blue October ~ BON JOVI ~ Boston ~ Bowling for Soup ~ The Bravery ~ Breaking Benjamin ~ Bret Michaels (solo) ~ Britny Fox ~ Bruce Springsteen ~ Bryan Adams ~ Buckcherry ~ Bullet for My Valentine ~ Bulletboys ~ Bullets & Octane ~ Burden Brothers ~ Bush ~ Butch Walker

The Calling ~ Camp Freddy ~ Cheap Trick ~ Chelsea Smiles ~ Chlorine ~ Cher ~ Chevelle ~ Cinder Road ~ Cinderella ~ CKY ~ Clay Aiken ~ Cold ~ Collective Soul ~ Counting Crows ~ Cowboy Mouth ~ Crazytown ~ Creed ~ Crooked X ~ Crosby, Stills, & Nash ~ The Cult ~ The Cure ~ Cyndi Lauper

Damn Yankees ~ The Darkness ~ Dashboard Confessional ~ Daughtry ~ David Allan Coe ~ David Lee Roth (solo) ~ Deadsy ~ Deep Purple ~ Def Leppard ~ Default ~ Deftones ~ Depeche Mode ~ Destiny's Child ~ Dexter Freebish ~ Dilana ~ Dio ~ Dirty Penny ~ Dokken ~ Dolly Parton ~ Don Dokken (solo) ~ The Donnas ~ The Doobie Brothers ~ The Doors (w/Ian Astbury) ~ Dope ~ Downset ~ Drowning Pool ~ Duran Duran

Eagles ~ Eddie Money ~ EndeverafteR ~ Enrique Iglesias ~ Enuff Z Nuff ~ Erasure ~ Eric Johnson ~ Eric Sardinas ~ Eve 6 ~ The Exies

Fall Out Boy ~ The Faint ~ Faith No More ~ Faster Pussycat ~ The Films ~ Finger Eleven ~ Firehouse ~ Flickerstick ~ Foo Fighters ~ Foreigner ~ Forever the Sickest Kids ~ The Fray ~ Fuel

Garbage ~ Garth Brooks ~ George Michael ~ George Strait ~ Glen Hansard & Marketa Irglova ~ Girlschool ~ Godsmack ~ Goo Goo Dolls ~ Goudie ~ Great White ~ Green Day ~ Greg Allman ~ GWAR ~ Gwen Stefani ~ Guns N Roses

My girls and me at a music festival (and Camrin with the awesome photobomb!)
Hank III ~ Heart ~ Hed Pe ~ Hey Monday ~ H.I.M. ~ Hinder ~ Hole ~ Hoobastank ~ House of Lords

Ian Moore ~ Incubus ~ INXS (w/Micheal Hutchence and then later w/JD Fortune) ~ Iron Maiden

Jackopierce ~ Jackyl ~ Jane's Addiction ~ Jerry Cantrell (solo) ~ Jet ~ Jet Black Stare ~ Jetboy ~ Jimmy Barnes ~ Jimmy Eat World ~ Joan Jett & the Blackhearts ~ John Corabi ~ John Mellencamp ~ JON BON JOVI (solo...radio station private show!) ~ Jonny Lang ~ John Butler Trio ~ Josh Todd (solo) ~ Journey (w/Steve Augeri & Arnel Pineda) ~ Judas Priest (w/Rob Halford & w/Ripper)

KC and the Sunshine Band ~ Keith Urban ~ Kelly Clarkson ~ Kenny Loggins ~ Kid Rock ~ The Killers ~ Kings of Leon ~ Kings X ~ KISS ~ Kittie

LA Guns ~ Lacuna Coil ~ Lenny Kravitz ~ Lifehouse ~ Limp Bizkit ~ Linda Perry ~ Linkin Park ~ Lit ~ Live ~ The Living End ~ LL Cool J ~ Loverboy ~ Lyle Lovett ~ Lynch Mob ~ Lynyrd Skynyrd

Marilyn Manson ~ Maroon 5 ~ Marshall Tucker Band ~ Matchbox 20 ~ MC Hammer ~ Meatloaf ~ Megadeth ~ Melissa Ethridge ~ Metal Skool ~ Metallica ~ Methods of Mayhem ~ Michael Anthony (solo) ~ Michael Jackson ~ Midnight Circus ~ Mike Ness (solo) ~ Mike Tramp (solo) ~ The Misfits ~ Motley Crue ~ Muse ~ My Chemical Romance
One of my prized possessions ~ a pic of Nikki Sixx staring lovingly into my eyes...
Nashville Pussy ~ Neil Diamond ~ New American Shame ~ Nickelback ~ Night Ranger ~ Nine Inch Nails ~ No Doubt ~ Noiseworks ~ NSYNC

Oasis ~ The Offspring ~ Oleander ~ Orgy ~ Our Lady Peace

Panic Channel ~ Pantera ~ Papa Roach ~ Pat Green ~ Pearl Jam ~ Pink ~ Placebo ~ POD ~ Podunk ~ Poison ~ The Poor ~ Power Station ~ Pretty Boy Floyd ~ Priestess ~ Prince ~ Public Enemy ~ Puddle of Mudd ~ Pushmonkey

Queensryche ~ Quiet Riot ~ The Quireboys


Ratt (w/Stephen Pearcy & w/Jizzy Pearl) ~ REO Speedwagon ~ Revolution Theory ~ Richie Sambora ~ Ricky Martin ~ Rob Zombie ~ Robert Earl Keen ~ Rolling Stones ~ The Romantics ~ Run DMC

Saliva ~ Sammy Hagar ~ Saving Abel ~ Scorpions ~ Screaming Jets ~ Scott Stapp (solo) ~ Sebastian Bach (solo) ~ Sevendust ~ Shinedown ~ Silvertide ~ Sixx AM ~ Skid Row (w/Sebastian & w/Johnny Solinger) ~ Slash ~ Slaughter ~ Social Distortion ~ SR71 ~ Steel Panther ~ Steelheart ~ Stevie Nicks ~ Sting ~ Stone Temple Pilots ~ Stone Rider ~ Stone Sour ~ The Strokes ~ Stryper ~ Styx (w/Dennis DeYoung & without) ~ Sugar Ray ~ Sum 41

Tantric ~ Taylor Swift ~ Ted Nugent ~ Tenacious D ~ Tesla ~ Theory of a Deadman ~ Third Eye Blind ~ Three Days Grace ~ Tiger Army ~ Toadies ~ Todd Snider ~ Toilet Boys ~ Tommy Lee ~ Train ~ Trans Siberian Orchestra ~ Trapt ~ Tuff ~ Twisted Sister

U2 ~ Union Underground ~ Unwritten Law ~ The Used

Vallejo ~ Van Halen (w/David Lee Roth & w/Sammy Hagar) ~ Vanilla Ice ~ Vayden ~ Velvet Revolver ~ Vertical Horizon ~ Vince Neil (solo)

Warrant (w/Jani Lane & w/Jamie St. James) ~ WASP ~ White Lion ~ White Stripes ~ Whitesnake ~ Whitney Houston ~ The Wildhearts ~ Willie Nelson ~ Winger

Y&T

ZZ Top

311 ~ 3 Doors Down ~ 30 Seconds to Mars


I'm sure I'm forgetting some. I guess you could say that I like live music.  Oh...the memories, but there's more to come...my life will always have live music!  And, your valuable lesson for today is:

Photo from here

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Sunday's Seven Snapshots #1

There are a lot of blogs out there who write a weekly round-up offering a re-cap of their week in one way or another. I'm not inventing the wheel. It is possible what I'm introducing is being done elsewhere. Each week, I plan to give you seven photos that will summarize things that happened to me, inspired me, interested me, entertained me, and more. I'm calling it Sunday's Seven Snapshots. Feel free to join in if you blog too.

I've joined a new book challenge. Read about it here. First book was this one I found at a secondhand bookstore. If you like thrillers, it's a good one. I'll definitely be reading more from this author. 

This is Shelby. I knew her in high school but through the wacky world of Facebook, we've reconnected and developed a friendship we didn't share back then. Shelby is having brain surgery January 2015 and has begun a blog to take you on the journey with her. She is smart, brave, and funny. Read about it here. 

Headline from this week's news regarding AC/DC's drummer, Phil Rudd.. Sex, drugs, and rock 'n' roll. Yes, yes, and yes. Apparently, if you mix in an alleged murder plot, you'll get yourself arrested. 

Working hard, or hardly working. You be the judge. 

 Sydney is a fantastic, beautiful place to live, but the cost of living is ridiculously expensive. This exact bunch of grapes cost me $6.91. 

This happened. It's been an inconsistent, insane season for my Aggies. I miss many games because they aren't televised her much, but I follow many games on twitter. Thanks to @AggieFootball, @aggiefblife, @TxAgs, @TAMUGameDay, sportswriter and long-time friend @BrentZwerneman, friend and fan @winohamster, and more for keeping me in the game with their twitter feeds. 

This Sunday, my house took a long afternoon nap. This is a picture of Astro and me just before I got up to type this. 

Happy Sunday to you and yours!