I make lists.
I read books.
I like clothes, food, music, my fur babies, travel, and loads of other stuff too.
I may write about any or all of these things.
It's that time of year again. Thanksgiving. It's the most difficult day for me as an American living in another part of the world. Thanksgiving is a very special day filled with food, football, and family while expressing gratitude for so many of our blessings and bounty. My guy has been great in years past, knowing that it is an important holiday for me. He's cooked me a turkey dinner with all the fixings. He's taken me to a restaurant that hosted a Thanksgiving themed meal. As much as I appreciate him and his efforts, (I really, really am grateful to have him)...but, Thanksgiving just isn't the same without these guys. Today, I'm a little sad.
Yep, we're family!
To my Texas family: Thank you for being you, and loving me for being me! Love you, and miss you.
Happy Thanksgiving!
**P.S. The next time I'm with my other side of the family, I totally need pictures!
I'm blogging more, and I'm reading more blogs. I stumbled upon Sarah's blog post about the Liebster award. As she states, "(t)he Liebster award is passed around
from blog to blog who have less than 200 followers!" I'll answer eleven
questions that Sarah has asked, then I will nominate
eleven (why 11? I don't know) other blogs with around or just less than 200 followers on
Facebook and/or Bloglovin'. (Yes, I stole more of Sarah's explanation...I'm new at this and not sure what I'm doing) From Sarah: "The nominees will then have the opportunity
to answer my questions and continue the nominations! It's a great way to
get to know one another in the blogging community and for readers to
get to know more about the person they follow!"
1. What is your favorite memory from 2014? I get married in 2014, not too many days from now, so I'll go ahead and predict that will be a great day.
2. What is the best meal you've ever had?
In 2013, I surprised my mom by coming home to Texas (with the help of family). We gathered aunts, uncle, cousins, and more to surprise her at Chuy's, a favorite Tex-Mex restaurant. I had chips & creamy jalapeño dip, Texas martinis, and more yummy goodness surrounded by family that love me.
3. If you could travel anywhere for one day, where would it be?
Does this include time travel? Because I'd totally go visit my younger self for a day and have a long conversation. 4. What is your favorite color? Hot Pink
5. What is one item on your Christmas wish list?
Shoes. Black flats. Boring. I know, but I need a new pair.
6. What was your favorite childhood TV show?
Welcome Back Kotter - loved those Sweathogs! 7. Would you rather be hot or cold? Why?
Hot. I like the feeling of warmth and sweating over freezing and shivering. 8. Backstreet Boys or N'Sync?
N'Sync
9. Do you wear socks to bed?
Never
10. How often do you blog throughout the week?
I've been blogging more; I used to be so infrequent; now two or three times a week
11. What is your favorite movie?
Tough to pick just one, but I'll say Love Actually.
My questions: 1. What is your favorite holiday? 2. If you could spend a week by yourself (no travel companion, just you) anywhere in the world, where would it be? 3. You can only have one of the following totally materialistic items; which one would it be? The house of your dreams, the car of your dreams, the wardrobe of your dreams? 4. Do you blog most often during the day or at night? 5. Coffee or Tea? 6. You are forced to give up two of the following; which do you keep? Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram? 7. Bath or Shower? 8. What's your favorite (something visual that involves admiring other people's talents) concert, or musical, or play, or painting? 9. Cats or Dogs? 10. You kill an hour in front of your television. You watch reality tv, a drama, a documentary, a comedy? 11. Do you dance, sing, or play a musical instrument?
Now, I'm supposed to nominate eleven bloggers with approximately 200 followers (or less) on facebook and/or bloglovin' to participate and answer my questions above. I'm just starting to actively follow blogs, so this may be tough. I'm not sure how I'm even supposed to go about tagging them. I'll figure it out. I nominate: Jenn at http://www.smartassdirect.com/ Lola at http://www.livinghe.re/ Daisy at http://simplicityrelished.com/ Kristen at http://www.seeyouinaporridge.com/ Jess at http://jeansandatiara.blogspot.com Shelby at http://theothersideofusual.wordpress.com/ Samantha at http://www.samanthafabris.com/ Crystal at http://www.dreams-etc.com/ Torie at http://www.callitadventureblog.com/ Breenah at http://bybreenah.blogspot.com Brita at http://bellebrita.com/
Social media has been filled with some strong rhetoric and images the last 24 hours. I've read things that I wish I hadn't read. I've seen things that I wish I didn't see. Living in Australia, I don't see all American news stories covered in the same way. But, I read American news daily. I believe that our news' sources can shape our thoughts about certain stories, so I try to read several different sources and points of view when stories of interest surface.
From what I've read and seen, I think the
death of Michael Brown could've been prevented by both Brown and Officer
Wilson. Brown acted aggressively towards
the officer. He definitely shouldn't have done that. When an officer
gives instruction, you do what he/she says, whether you agree or not.
And, you definitely don't act in a way that can be interpreted as
reaching for the officer's weapon. Did the officer over-react? I think there's argument that he did. I think six shots were unnecessary. But
it doesn't matter what I think. It was up to the grand jury. They made
a decision. If the citizens of Ferguson want to protest that decision,
that is their right, and I support it. However, I do not support
looting, vandalism, setting fires, or further violence. I know we don't
live in an ideal world, but I'd like to see us learn, grow, and evolve
when such incidents take place. I don't think further destruction helps
that cause.
Those are my thoughts, but I'd like to share the thoughts of someone else. I had the pleasure of working with Danny
for a few years. He is a hard-working, easy-going, father, husband,
and friend. He is a black man who grew up in Houston, Texas, the fourth
largest city in the USA. Danny posted these words on facebook a few hours after the Ferguson announcement. His words were thoughtful, heartfelt, and eloquent. They are worth sharing and thoughtfully reading. Read, and think. (But,
please, do not use my space as a place to disrespectfully debate).
From Danny: "Today, we as a culture are dealing with centuries of
negative mental programming and a culture of lack and inferiority that
we are just now beginning to shed. We need to work toward the ultimate
goal of unity and growth (spiritual,mental, and economic) if we ever
want to move past where we've been. We got close during the civil rights
movement, but were derailed by the efforts of those who hated us for no
plausible reason other than heritage.
We have to do better and
teach our children better if we want better. We cant loot liquor stores
in our community because of civil injustice. If we're not happy with
what's going on, we need to be effective not only.with our words, but
with our actions. I just can't deal with some of these images I see. It
makes it hard for those who can articulate the real problems to maintain
any credibility when it's a stark contrast to the actions some display.
Looting is not protesting. It's just that simple."
On the train, listening to my ipod which I regularly keep on shuffle so whatever plays next is a surprise. Today, it's serving up some good ones, so I've grabbed some lyrics to share:
1.
We were the kings and queens of promise
We were the victims of ourselves
Maybe the children of a lesser God
Between Heaven and Hell
30 Seconds to Mars "Kings and Queens" written by Jared Leto
13.
I know you'll look away while I'm crying
I know you'll wear that bow with a smile
Everything I gave you, it was wasted
Love further down, adore that denial
AFI "Heart Stops" written by Davey Havok and Jade Puget
14.
Something so familiar drawn from this blank page
Every line from my hand takes me back to what I can't erase
Bon Jovi "Pictures of You" written by Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora, John M. Shanks
15.
This song is a work of lyrical genius, so you get the whole song. The song is a story that you need it in its entirety to truly feel the emotion of the story. Seriously. If you do not know this song, watch this video, and read these lyrics. So, so good.
And it starts
Sometime around midnight
Or at least that's when you lose yourself
For a minute or two
As you stand
Under the bar lights
And the band plays some song about forgetting yourself for a while
And the piano's this melancholy soundtrack to her smile
And that white dress she's wearing, you haven't seen her
For a while
But you know
That she's watching
She's laughing, she's turning
She's holding her tonic like a cross
The room suddenly spinning, she walks up and asks how you are
So you can smell her perfume
You can see her lying naked in your arms
And so there's a change
In your emotions
And all of these memories come rushing like feral waves to your mind
Of the curl of your bodies, like two perfect circles entwined
And you feel hopeless, and homeless, and lost in the haze of the wine
And she leaves
With someone you don't know
But she makes sure you saw her, she looks right at you and bolts
As she walks out the door
Your blood boiling, your stomach in ropes
And then your friends say "What is it? You look like you've seen a ghost."
And you walk
Under the streetlights
And you're too drunk to notice that everyone's staring at you
You don't care what you look like
The world is falling around you
You just have to see her
You just have to see her
You just have to see her
You just have to see her
You just have to see her
You know that she'll break you in two
The Airborne Toxic Event "Sometime Around Midnight" written by Mikel Jollet
I took the day off on Monday, watched a couple of movies, and snuggled with this guy.
Tuesday marked fifteen years since the collapse of Aggie bonfire and twelve lives were lost. A sad day for my university.
I was liking my hot pink lipstick, so I took a photo. I'm an idiot sometimes.
Picked up some books at the library. I've had The Rosie Project on reserve for months. It was finally ready for me, and it fits a category for the book challenge. Bonus.
A friend posted this; I had to save and share.
Instagram had a campaign to bring awareness to domestic violence. I saw this post by a girl I don't know and was really moved by it.
Me at The Screaming Jets - an Aussie rock show that I'm so glad I didn't miss (thanks to Kate).
I stumbled upon a blog (The Happy Type) who is new to hosting a weekly linkup. Well, I'm new to participating in a weekly linkup. (Actually, I've never participated until now.) If I'm going to jump in as a newbie, I might as well jump in with a newbie host. Check her out here.
My contribution to things that I'm "currently loving":
Mount Franklin Lightly Sparkling Water - For the last few months, I've done a pretty good job at eliminating cokes and other sodas and energy drinks. Because of this, I've been drinking lots and lots of water. I've discovered that if I drink sparkling water it actually makes me feel fuller. I don't know if it's the bubbles working magic or what, but it works for me. Plus, Mount Franklin has these Jennifer Hawkins (former Miss Universe) sponsored wrapped bottles of water, so they look pretty while I'm drinking them :)
I don't regularly watch morning news/entertainment shows. But, if I did, I'd watch the Today Show (Australian version). Karl Stefanovic is a well-known television presenter in Australia. Some love him, and some hate him. I've found him to be somewhat genuine and entertaining. I think he made news this week for a pretty awesome social experiment. Watch here:
Butch Walker is an insanely talented musician that I (not just currently) regularly love. He's got a new album coming out soon. He's touring with Ryan Adams and playing awesome places like Carnegie Hall. He's feeding his fans with new songs from the upcoming album. This is one of them. I love the guitar. I love the vocals. I love the lyrics. Three reasons why I love Mr. Butch Walker.
Spring is my favorite season, and it's Springtime in Sydney! The skies are blue, the flowers are blooming, and the weather has been pretty close to perfect. I love that I have citrus trees in my front and back yards. Here's a baby mandarin from my yard:
Monday was these girlies' first birthday. Sally & Dolly are one year old! We were told they are 75% Great Dane + 25% German Shepherd. Now, after a year of growth, I'm convinced they are 100% mutt. Love these sweet sisters.
Tuesday was Veteran's Day in America and Remembrance Day in Australia. These are pictures of my great-uncles who served in WWII.
People freaked about the trilogy that began with Fifty Shades of Grey; I couldn't finish the book. Actually, I just didn't care how it ended, so I quit it. Now, fans are freaking about the movie trailer. The BDSM doesn't bother me. I'm just not fond of neat-freak, self-absorbed, anal-retentive people, nor am I attracted to them. Let's just say I would NOT be interested in a guy if his closet looked like this.
I commute daily by train. This is a typical view for me: book in hand, Lavendar Bay and North Sydney in the distance.
It was time to put decorations out at the store. It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas... (Shameless plug: www.polajewellers.com)
Ivy loves laying on her daddy's clothes (and mine too). If you can't find her, she may be in the wardrobe or closet, in a clothes drawer, or in the laundry basket.
In bed, with a book and my three kitties: My kind of Saturday night party these days.
Yes, this week had several animal photos. I can't help it. They are such cute subjects that I take a lot of fur baby photos.
How was your week?
*okay, I wrote this Saturday night but didn't mean to publish until Sunday but hit publish on accident, so it published a day early. Thank goodness I don't have many people that actually pay attention to my blog. Ha!
