Wednesday, February 24, 2016

#Hashtag Confessions: 4th week, 2nd month

I confess:  I really have no intro.  I'm just going to jump into this.  Random jibberish coming atcha.  #embracetherandom

I confess:  I missed last week's Wednesday post because I'm in a funk.  #noapologies
 

I confess:  I still watch American Idol.  There are a few seasons I missed, but I've watched most.  #noapologies #ialreadyusedthathashtag

I confess:  I am way too old to be crushing on this American Idol contestant.  I'm old enough to be his momma.  I'm not the only one, Jennifer Lopez (who is older than I am) likes him too.  #hesofage #ichecked

I confess:  I like guyliner.  #noshame

I confess:  I was challenged to write a Bon Jovi post months ago.  I am taking this post way too seriously.  It is too long with too many songs, but I feel guilty when I cut parts of it, edit it, or remove songs, because I love them so.  #jovigirlforlife

I confess:  I woke my guy while snapchatting about Disney's #ShareYourEars promotion.  #itsforagreatcause
For every photo with the hashtag #shareyourears, Disney will donate to the Make-A-Wish foundation up to $1 million dollars.

I confess:  I've never listened to a podcast.  #ineedtolearn #thearmchairlibrarians
 
 
I confess:  I'm feeling blah, so I ate this for lunch: Nutella Ricotta tart. #emotionaleater #iknowitswrong




That's about it for this Wednesday.  What do you have to confess?

Wednesday link-ups with Laura & Lauren,  Alanna & Sarah, and  Nadine & Kathy:


Monday, February 22, 2016

Monday Mumblings

Typically, I don't work Sundays or Mondays.  We got a text from our part-timer on Sunday saying that her son is sick, and she can't work Monday.  My guy has a lot of work to do, so he needs someone running the shop.  Guess what that means.......I'm at work on Monday.
 
 
If I have to be at work, instead of working, I might as well write a blog post, right? 
 
 
The court case finding in favor of Sony infuriates and disgusts me so much that I can't adequately put it into words, but I'll try.  Well, first, I'll share a couple of articles that summarize what's been happening up to this point:
 
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Okay.  I get it.  Dr. Luke (the accused producer) is innocent until proven guilty.  And, I admit, I am no attorney.  I have never studied contractual law.  I am only speaking as a woman, as a person with compassion and concern about the welfare and health of another woman. 
 
Can you imagine being forced to work at a company where your accused rapist, abuser, and tormenter is revered and in a position of power?  For an album, a single, a tour, an artist to reach some success in the music industry, almost all of them need the support of their record label.  Does it appear that Sony supports Kesha? 
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This case is an example of so many other cases.  Repeatedly, we see the accuser (the victim) being doubted, being questioned, being victimized all over again, yet it continues to happen.  How much courage would it take to speak out against a hugely successful person (in a powerful position) in the world of entertainment?  How much strength would it take to speak out against a huge, powerful corporation like Sony?  A lot of fucking courage and strength.  I'm no fan of her music, but my thoughts and positive vibes are with Kesha, and others around the world are supporting her too, but, what does that support do for her happiness, health, and future career?  As I stated before, I am infuriated and disgusted.
 
On to something a little lighter...
 
Von Miller is a professional football player who majored in Poultry Science at Texas A&M University (the university I graduated from).  He's not just any professional football player.  He was the Super Bowl 50 MVP.  Because of this spotlight, people are noticing what a great guy Von Miller seems to be.  And......he's not just relying on football to take care of him forever.  He has his own chicken farm in Texas (using the university education).  Read this article: Nerd by Von Miller 
 
Plus, this picture has now leapt into one of my favourite fotos of all time:
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Trump.  I can't.  I can't say anymore than what I've already said: 

"Trump is a fucking embarrassment. He is a fucking idiot. Fuck him, fuck his hair, fuck his terrible spray tans, fuck his racism, fuck his bankruptcies, fuck "The Apprentice", fuck the political climate that has developed where people are actually supporting him." (originally posted December 16, 2015)

 
I haven't shared a round of funnies lately, so here you go.....

 
 
I'd say "Happy Monday" to you, but really.............
 
 


Sunday, February 21, 2016

Sunday's Seven Snapshots vol.61

  
My cousin and I were shopping together in Texas a couple of years ago, and we both got these sandals.  I think of her every time I wear them. 

Oh, you know, just trying to take a picture of the back of my hair.

We ordered takeaway from Hooters this week (and had a beer at the bar while waiting for it).  Chicken strips dipped in hot sauce with 3 mile island on the side.  I need this in my life more often than it is.

This guy.  Again.  Watching me shower.  Perv.

The stepkid got an ipod shuffle from Santa.  We're finally getting around to loading some songs.  These are the first 8 songs he's chosen.  My rocker chick heart swells with pride. 

Chillin' on the train like a regular teenager. Except he's 8.

Purchases- cat socks, taco t-shirt, heart-shaped sunglasses - all unnecessary, but all make me smile.

Happy weekend to you!

Wednesday, February 17, 2016

My personal recap of Grammys 2016

​I like to live tweet awards shows.  It helped me find my little blog sis, Kati Rose, (we realized yesterday was our one year anniversary as big/little sis because our bond formed over last year's Grammys).  I couldn't live tweet the Grammys this year (silly timezone differences).  But, I did take a look (from my work computer) at live tweets during the show.
 
Last night, I watched a delayed recording.  This is my personal opinion, my own recap, and my own thoughts about the Grammys 2016.  According to me...without reading other recaps (besides the live tweets yesterday)...I emailed these thoughts to Kati, then I thought "what the hell, I'll post it on the blog too."
 
 
Taylor Swift opens - I really don't want to hate on Taylor.  I'm happy for the success of someone who works hard, writes her own music, gets criticized and ridiculed (by some) and revered by others.  But.  She's NOT that great of a singer.  She's a performer.  A songwriter.  She's beautiful and stylish.  Not that great of a singer.  But I saw a lot of people compliment her singing.  Maybe, it's just me.  AND.  I don't like body shaming anyone.  But, I want to feed Taylor 10 cheeseburgers and 3 deep dish pizzas.
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LLCool J comes out on stage to host the show, and all I could do was stare in awe at his diamond encrusted "LL" brooch.  Does this man age?

Now, I may get some things out of order from here.  I'm going off the cuff by memory.

There were tributes...and this is what I thought about those -
 
Lionel Richie was honoured with a Music Cares recognition.  It began with John Legend on the piano singing "Easy".  I kinda wish it would have stayed with John Legend.  A quality that he has and shares with Lionel is he makes it feel effortless.  More joined him to sing more of Lionel's songs.  Demi Lovato can sing.  She looked stunning.  But, I felt she was putting in a lot of effort to prove that she can sing.  Luke Bryan - well, I know he has a lot of country fans.  I appreciate that they were trying to mix up the genres to show that Lionel influenced many.  And, they had to work Meghan Trainor in because she won a grammy later.  Tyrese singing "Brick House" seemed to be the song the audience had the most fun dancing and singing along.  But, like I said, I kinda wish it would have just been a shorter medley with just John Legend performing...and then Lionel joining him.  Dave Grohl and his red solo cup dancing to "All Night Long" was indeed awesome.

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The much talked about tribute to David Bowie.  Here's where I wish they'd brought in the cross genres/cross generation of performers.  Giving it all to Lady Gaga...well, I didn't agree with that choice.  Her performances of "Fashion" and "Fame" were outstanding, and I liked the choice to look androgynous.  But, overall, I felt it was too much Gaga again trying too hard to prove she is an uber talent.  My opinion...Bowie's brilliance is that he crossed so-many-boundaries.  Gaga does too.  But, I wanted more.  I wanted performances from more artists that he influenced.  Nile Rodgers was a nice touch.
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BB King - brilliant.  So much musicianship on stage at once, and I think it didn't connect with the audience as well as it connected with me.  I want Bonnie Raitt's jacket.
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Glenn Frey - perfect for the man honored.  Get the current Eagles together, sing a song that is quintessential Glenn Frey Eagles, "Take It Easy".  Sing in perfect harmonies with perfect sound quality.  Only mishap was Jackson Browne and some lyrics, but I'll let that slide.  It's not his song. 
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Lemmy of Motorhead - Yes.  I'm biased.  I like rock music.  That is my music of choice.  Joe Perry is one of my all-time favourite guitarists.  Duff McKagan is one of my all-time favourite bassists.  Johnny Depp continues to surprise people with his talents and coolness.  I like Matt Sorum (the drummer).  Here's where rock fans may not agree with me, but Alice Cooper isn't my choice for this somewhat supergroup.  I don't know what their intentions are.  If they are just guys who enjoy getting together and jamming - fine.  But, if they want more mass appeal, they need a more appealing vocalist.  Alice Cooper is great at what he does - his shock rock extravaganza.  But, his vocals weren't great at this.  I think they only scanned the face of one audience member (Bruno Mars), and he was pretty blank-faced.
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More performances...

Kendrick Lamar was the one that had my tweeter feed going wild from someone calling it crap to others calling it brilliant.  So, you know, I've got two cents.  Actually, I've got more.  I've got ten cents.  Maybe even a quarter about this topic.
I feel like I need to admit that I am completely totally without-a-doubt out-of-touch with the rap world of today.  I am aware of artists that are having success.  But, I don't know their songs.  I don't know their stories.  I admit ignorance.  I wasn't always this way.  Rap has never been my top genre of choice.  But, when I was in junior high, high school, college, I owned a lot of the more popular rap albums (because that was a time we bought full albums/cassettes/cds; not just singles).  I owned and saw in concert Run DMC, LL Cool J, and Beastie Boys.  I owned NWA, Dr Dre, and Snoop Dogg.  I owned Houdini and Kool Moe Dee.  I owned and saw the more pop, than rap works of MC Hammer and DJ Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh Prince.  I even saw Public Enemy in concert.  They were looked at as highly protagonistic at the time.  So, I did own and see my share of rap music.
 
As I got older, my rap fandom fell away.  Call it age.  Tastes change.  My way of listening to music changed.  I just don't listen to current rap anymore.  So, that leads to Kendrick Lamar.  I am aware that he is popular and successful, but until this Grammy performance, I'd never heard a song of his in its entirety (although I think his performance consisted of a couple of his songs). 
First...did anyone else notice that he rapped with a feature artist coming in to sing a catchy pop chorus?  He didn't have any other rapper friends join him.  He rapped solid, straight, and I can't even imagine the vocal chords and stomach muscles that it takes to do that but these guys (and gals) don't get credit for that.  Next...the blend of a saxophone jazz player with spoken word with African tribal sounds with r&b and modern hip-hop music is a pretty magnificent way of blending his influences with his own artistry.  That's right I said artistry.  It seems to me, he freshly blends the old and new.  He is provocative.  He forced a reaction.  He is seemingly eloquent and articulate (although I admit that I didn't understand many of the lyrics, I imagine many of his fans do).  I applaud his performance.  Will I go out and buy his music?  No.  It's not my kind of music anymore.  But the high school girl in me who liked a little rap now and then would've probably bought it.
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Now...James Bay and Tori Kelly...pretty much everyone watching the Grammys on my twitter feed agreed that this was an amazing performance.  And, it was.  Because this is the kind of music I listen to, I will buy some Tori Kelly (I already own some James Bay.)  A beautiful blend of voices, guitars, and good-looking people (c'mon, I'm not going to lie.  It doesn't hurt.)  Performance of the night.
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Adele.  What happened with her production team?  The sound was terrible.  The lighting was terrible.  You know Adele was dropping some f-bombs after she got off the stage. 
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Bieber.  I didn't need his acoustic solo performance of "Love Yourself".  I like that song, but I'd rather it done like it was recorded.   A fun pop song.  If I'm going to talk about Bieber, I can't help myself, I have to talk about him on the red carpet with his little brother.  Stop the adorableness!
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I liked the inclusion of Hamilton and televising the Broadway Musical Award.  Maybe because I like Broadway musicals.
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Those Little Big Town folks sure can harmonize and "Girl Crush" has some clever lyrics.  Plus, I like how that one female member embraces her curls.
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I'm staring at the computer trying to remember any other performance...I guess that means they weren't memorable enough for this recap.  No disrespect.
 
I questioned why the Song of the Year and the Record of the Year weren't asked to perform.  (Ed Sheeran "Thinking Out Loud" & Mark Ronson with Bruno Mars "Uptown Funk")  I mean, those are two BIG awards of the night/year, yet they are chosen to perform?
I was happy with the wins for Song of the Year (Thinking out Loud) and Record of the Year (Uptown Funk). 
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I applaud Taylor for using her win/platform to give a "classy" fuck you to Kanye douchebag West.  If you don't know the back story to this, get it somewhere else, because I'm not posting that douchebag's lyrics here.  Taylor said in her acceptance speech for album of the year: 
"I want to say to all the young women out there, there will be people along the way who will try to undercut your success," she said. "Or take credit for your accomplishments or your fame.  But if you just focus on the work … you will look around and you will know that it was you and the people who love you that put you there. That will be the greatest moment."
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I know, I know...we expect Beyoncé to look beautiful when she has her 30 seconds of screen time, but she did look incredibly beautiful.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3448882/Beyonce-angelic-lacy-white-number-makes-surprise-appearance-Grammys-present-biggest-award.html
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This sums up my feelings about the finale:


 
So......what did I miss?

 

Saturday, February 13, 2016

Sunday's Seven Snapshots vol.60

A Sunday evening walk included watching the sunset over a river...

Super Bowl party for one (pluse Astro)

Ricky & Neil having a staring contest after Ricky tried to swipe some food

I'm a sucker for pink glittery nails.

Nothing says "I love my Valentine" like sharing popcorn while watching a violent Quentin Tarantino movie (The Hateful Eight). 

Hangin' with my homegirls

My Valentines

Thursday, February 11, 2016

Solitude

In the busy lives that we lead with commitments and obligations, work and play, house duties and personal relationships, parenting and mentoring, appointments and schedules............and more..................do you ever just want a piece of solitude?  I do.  I know others do.  After all, there are pins on pinterest about it, so it must be a "thing", right? 
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I'm craving a time-out at the moment.  I'm craving some solitude.  I want to hide.  I don't want television or a phone.  I want quiet.  I am pretty certain my guy needs it too. I want to give him a week or 3 days or whatever he needs to have a break from all work and home obligations. I want a week or 3 days of the same. It has nothing to do with our lack of love or commitment to each other and everything to do with a need for quiet and solitude.  I believe having some solo time for a mental health break and emotional rejuvenation is a good thing.
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Sometimes my life has too.much.noise.   Sometimes, dealing with the general public in a customer service type role, I hate people.  Not all people.  Just rude, idiotic, self-centered, uncooperative people.  I've been getting those kind of customers the last couple of weeks.  I want a break.  I want quiet.  I want solitude. 

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I don't intend for this post to sound like it is filled with negativity.  I really want it to be encouraging for us to bring self-care in our lives.  I need some self-care.  I need solitude.

What do you do for self-care?
 

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